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Darkhorse's avatar

So many resonances. In the 1990s I trained as a soul midwife and also ran workshops on death related matters. As a celebrant, helping people to create unique funerals was immensely rewarding. We do death badly in our culture and it is now a professionalised business model that people fear to deviate from. Traditional cultures made space for the catharsis of full-on grief: weeping, wailing, collapse, immersion and subsequent acknowledgement and support. Our ego-centred culture creates an abnormal terror of death and there is little sense of it being a vital part of the cycle of life. I once took part in a magical ceremony that recreated Inanna's descent into the underworld: it was a profound and transforming experience that confronted the initiate with loss, terror and death. As the Buddhist saying goes, one must die before one dies. Pilgrimage: myself and two friends, all of us on the wrong side of 60, walked part of the Golden Valley Pilgrim Way last week. We stayed overnight in churches (the clock bongs all night and of course we all had to go for a wee several times) and although tired and wet for most of it, we will do it again next year; it was wonderful.

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A rich and deep tapestry of words and images, a deeper joining of spirits. Those of us called to work in the liminal realms and the deep earthy reality of embodiment perceive so many subtle threads, in their endless weaving and unravelling, breaking, mending, joining and weaving. You get closer, in your words, to revealing and sharing this natural way of being than anyone I read regularly. It is such a joy to have found your writing.

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